The main objective of this study is to find out the various causes of conjugal psychological.physical abuse and to determine desirable coping strategy contributing to their individual well-being in the condition. Survey of 328 couples residing in Seoul and Puasn are picked up as datum sources. The main results are as follows ; 1. The percentile of husbands who experience psychological abuse stands at 69.8% and 78.1% for the wives, on the other hand physical abuse on the husbands stands at the 25.9% while 44.8% on wives. 2. Coping strategy on psychological.physical abuse showed a significant difference according to their sex. 3. Of the variables which affect the individual well-being, mutual agreement had the most significant influence.