The common problems found in the data mining methods current in use have following problems. First: It is ineffective in searching for frequent items due to changing of minimal support values. Second: It is not adaptable to occurring of unuseful relation rules. Third: It is very difficult to re-use preceding results while adding new transactions. In this paper, we introduce a new method named as SPM-IRG(Selective Patters Mining using item Relation Graph), that is designed to solve above listed problems. SPM-IRG method creates a frequent items using minimal support values obtained by investigating direct or indirect relation of all items in transaction. Moreover, the new method can minimize inefficiency of existing method by constructing frequent items using only the items that we are interested.