It has been assumed that father\'s child-rearing attitudes are important in helping middle school students, who come in adolescent period, form a positive self-esteem, having significant impact on mother\'s marital satisfaction. This study was intended to find the impact of father\'s child-rearing attitudes perceived by middle school students on mother\'s marital satisfaction and middle-school students\' self-esteem. In addition, it is to provide the basic information for happy life among fathers, mothers, and children by encouraging a father to participate in parenting and highlighting the importance of father\'s child-rearing attitudes. The findings are as follows; First, there is no correlation between father\'s child-rearing attitudes perceived by middle school students and mother\'s marital satisfaction. Second, in terms of the correlation between father\'s child-rearing attitudes perceived by middle school students and his/her self-esteem, children whose fathers have self-regulated father\'s child-rearing attitudes show more leadership and enjoy popularity among peers. Third, in terms of the correlation between mother\'s marital satisfaction and middle-school students\' self-esteem, Conclusively, there is no correlation between father\'s child-rearing attitudes perceived by middle school students and marital satisfaction, showing that mothers with higher marital satisfaction have more impact on middle-school students\' self-esteem and that middle school students\' self-esteem is affected by self-regulated child-rearing attitudes in terms of leadership and popularity. But, these results suggest that mothers still have more participated in child-rearing than fathers. A good family will be made when fathers are encouraged to participate in child-rearing. Quantitatively and qualitatively, as much as mothers have had much interest in it. Also, it serves a drive power for promising society.