The purpose of this study is to explore the difficulties experienced by multicultural counselors who experienced family demolition crisis as counselors in multicultural children s group counseling process. In order to achieve this goal, the researchers used the research method of culture and technology journal in order to deeply explore the feelings of difficulties experienced in multicultural children group counseling, and used data on field journals, memoirs, transcripts of conversations, Respectively. The concepts, subcategories, and categories were derived by comparing the collected data, analyzing and conceptualizing them. Through this process, we derive the categories of ‘Shared emotional experience’ and ‘Self-examination in therapeutic relationships’. The results of the study were as follows. First, the multicultural counselor who experienced the crisis of family disintegration through ‘Shared emotional experience’ was able to confront various emotions projected as a counselor through the difficulties experienced in the multicultural child counseling process. Second, through the self - reflection of multicultural counselors through the ‘Self-examination in therapeutic relationships’, it was possible to recover the therapeutic relationship with multicultural children. The study shows that counselors who have experienced a family breakdown crisis have difficulties in self-reception and in developing their clinical relationships by exploring their experiences with the difficulties they experienced as leaders of multicultural groups.